Saturday, May 28, 2022

 




10. Ignatius and his companions.

 

    Ignatius was gathering companions who would share his vision and zeal for God’s work. At Alcala from 1525 to 1527, he gathered three companions: Calisto D’Sa, Juan De Arteaga and Lobe de Carcases. They went with him to Salamanca and were put in prison along with Ignatius there. In 1528 Ignatius went to Paris while these three remained in Spain. Eventually they lost contact with Ignatius.

 

    In Paris Ignatius met Peter Favre. Peter Favre helped Ignatius in his studies and in return Ignatius helped Peter Favre in spiritual matters. Peter Favre went through the Spiritual Exercises and was so impressed with them that he brought his roommate Francis Xavier to Ignatius. At first Francis Xavier distrusted Ignatius but Ignatius gradually won him over. Three Spaniards - Diego Laynez, Alphonso Salmeron and Nicolas Bobadilla, and a Portuguese - Simon Rodrigues joined the group. Ignatius gave then all the Spiritual Exercises. This brought about a tremendous change in them. They were fired with zeal for God’s work and formed themselves into a group of ‘friends in the Lord’. 


    They were eager to go with Ignatius to work in the Holy Land. In fact, on 15th August, 1534 at Our Lady’s Chapel in Montmartre, they all took the vows of poverty and chastity with a vow to go to the Holy Land. They decided that in case they did not succeed to go the Holy Land in a year’s time they would go to Rome and present themselves to the Pope and take up the task and go wherever the Pope would send them. In this way they would be more certain of doing God’s will. They had no superior but regarded Ignatius as their leader since he was the original inspiration in uniting them for God’s work.

 

    Ignatius fell sick in 1535 so his friends and the doctors advised him to go to Spain for some months. Peter Favre then became the natural leader of the group. The group was so strong that even during Ignatius’ absence they got three new members to join them: Claude Le Jay, Paschase Broet and Jean Codure. They all joined Ignatius in Venice on January 1537. Ignatius called them “My nine friends in the Lord".


    In Venice they began to think seriously about ordination and their pilgrimage to the Holy Land. Peter Favre and Claude Le Jay were priests before joining the group. The remaining seven were ordained in Venice on 24th June 1537. Due to the Turkish war there was no ship going to the Holy Land. So, in September 1537 the companions set out for Rome to present themselves to the Pope.


( Coming up next.   Chapter 11.Ignatius and La Storta. )


"Placed with the Son"- A short biography of St. Ignatius

 

By Fr. Lawrence Dharmaraj, SJ

 

(From the personal study notes under the guidance of late Fr. Maurice Dullard, SJ. 

A special thanks to Fr.Vincent Saldanha s.j for doing the necessary corrections))

 

Thursday, May 26, 2022

 


Challenge to Catholic Communicators

-*Fr. Cedric Prakash SJ

 

On 15 May 2022, Pope Francis proclaimed ten outstanding women and men as Saints of the Catholic Church. Among them was Blessed Titus Brandsma, a Dutch Carmelite priest and journalist.Fr. Brandsma was named spiritual adviser to the Dutch Association of Catholic Journalists in 1935 and became its president after the Nazi invasion of the Netherlands. He worked with the Dutch bishops’ in crafting their message opposing Nazi ideology and the forced publication of propaganda in Catholic newspapers.

Following Germany’s invasion of the Netherlands in 1940, Brandsma defended the freedom of Catholic education and the Catholic press against Nazi pressure. In the face of great risk, he visited the offices of Catholic media outlets around the country over the course of ten days, encouraging editors to resist pressure to publish Nazi propaganda. His actions drew the ire of the Nazi regime who arrested him in 1942. Several months later, he was transported to the Dachau concentration camp where he was killed by a lethal injection of carbolic acid. He had to pay the ultimate price for his visible and vocal stand against Nazim. St. John Paul II, who beatified the Dutch priest on 3 November 1985, regarded him as a “valiant journalist” and a “martyr of freedom of expression against the tyranny of the dictatorship.”


A few days before the canonization of Brandsma, hundreds of journalists from all over the world, wrote an open letter requesting the Holy Father to name the Dutch Carmelite as the patron saint of journalists. The letter is significant on several counts; the key aspects, relevant for all Catholic communicators today include,

“In 2018 you asked us, journalists, loud and clear, ‘to promote a journalism of peace’, a ‘journalism that is truthful and opposed to falsehoods, rhetorical slogans, and sensational headlines. A journalism created by people for people, one that is at the service of all… a journalism committed to pointing out alternatives to the escalation of shouting matches and verbal violence’ (‘The truth will set you free’ (Jn. 8:32), Fake news and journalism for peace. Message of His Holiness Pope Francis for World Communications Day,24 Jan 2018).

We wholeheartedly endorse your call to action and in it we recognize a mission statement for the whole of the journalistic enterprise: for old and new media, for editors of newspapers, magazines, radio and television stations, and internet platforms - and not only for journalists of Catholic origin, but for all journalists of good will.

On 15 May, in Rome, you will canonize a man who embodied these crucial journalistic values until his dying day: the Dutch Carmelite Father Titus Brandsma (1881 - 1942). 

Titus Brandsma has meant a lot to the Catholic community in the Low Countries, but his journalistic work stands out among all his other activities. He was editor-in-chief of a newspaper, devoted himself to the modernization and professionalization of the Catholic daily press in the Netherlands, and strove for better working conditions and the establishment of a professional training for journalists.

Father Brandsma did his work in the context of the rise of fascism and Nazism in Europe. In word and deed, he opposed the language of hatred and division that was becoming common at the time. In his view, what we now describe as ‘fake news’ was not to be tolerated in the Catholic press; he successfully argued for an episcopal ban on the printing of National Socialist propaganda in Catholic newspapers. 

He paid with his life for his courageous actions: in early 1942 Father Titus was arrested by the occupying forces and consequently sent to the Dachau concentration camp. There, on July 26 of the same year, he was killed by an injection, on the Sunday that the Dutch bishops had their courageous protest against the deportations of Jews read out in all the churches.

We, Catholic journalists, recognize in Titus Brandsma a professional peer and fellow believer of considerable standing. Someone who shared the deeper mission that should drive journalism in modern times: a search for truth and veracity, the promotion of peace and dialogue between people.

We therefore see him as a friend and advocate for our entire profession, indeed a patron saint of journalism. We would therefore like to boldly ask you to make this patron saint’s office official. 

The current patron saint of journalism is Francis de Sales. He is undoubtedly a holy man of faith and of great merit, but he was not a journalist in the modern sense of the word. Titus Brandsma was.

And as we said, he gave his life for it. In our view, this makes him particularly suitable for this patronage. According to UNESCO, in 2021, no less than 55 journalists died worldwide while carrying out their work. Many more had to deal with violence, threats, repression, censorship and persecution. The commitment to truth and humanity is extremely dangerous in these times of disinformation and polarization. This urgently requires a holy intercessor who has experienced this personally - and passed the ordeal with flying colours.”


The letter says it all: what Catholic Communications should be today; the fact that St. Brandsma courageously embodied its totality. It was certainly not easy for him; he had to face much hostility from the all-powerful fascists; he did not relent and had to pay with his life for his prophetic stand. There is plenty that Catholic Communicators all over – and particularly in India- need to learn from St Brandsma and also from the letter written by some renowned Catholic journalists to the Pope.

 

More so, because on 29 May 2022, the Church all over the globe observes the 56th World Day of Social Communications (In India, it coincides with the Feast of the Ascension of Our Lord). The theme of Pope Francis’ powerful message is ‘Listening with the Ear of the Heart’. The theme is rooted in the Gospel of St. Luke ‘Take care, then, how you listen.’ (Lk8:18). The theme complements the 2021 message ‘Come and See’. Pope Francis in his opening statement says, “Last year we reflected on the need to “Come and See” in order to discover reality and be able to recount it beginning with experiencing events and meeting people. Continuing in this vein, I would now like to draw attention to another word, “listen”, which is decisive in the grammar of communication and a condition for genuine dialogue”.

‘World Communications Day was established by Pope Paul VI in 1967, just about two years after the Second Vatican Council. In fact, it is the oldest special observance day of the Catholic Church.  This annual celebration encourages us to reflect on the opportunities and challenges that the modern means of social communication (the press, movies, drama, radio, television, the internet and all of social media) afford the Church to communicate the gospel message effectively and contextually. The Church realised that she must engage fully with the modern world. This realisation is expressed in the opening statement of the Pastoral Constitution ‘Gaudium et Spes’ on ‘The Church in the Modern World’, which says, “the joys and the hopes, the griefs and the anguishes of the people of our time, especially of those who are poor or afflicted in any way, are the joys and the hopes, the griefs and the anguishes of the followers of Christ as well.”

Pope Paul VI, knowing that the Church is truly and intimately linked with mankind and its history, wanted to draw attention to the communications media and the enormous power they have for cultural transformation. He and his successors have consistently recognised the positive opportunities the communications media afford for enriching human lives with the values of truth, justice, beauty and goodness, but also the possibly negative effects of spreading hate, fake news and pressurising minds and manipulating consciences with a multiplicity of contradictory and divisive content. In 1990, Pope John Paul II, in his encyclical ‘Redemptoris Missio’ states, “The world of communications is the first Areopagus of the modern age, unifying humanity and turning it into what is known as a ‘global village’. The communications media have acquired such importance as to be for many the chief means of information and education, of guidance and inspiration for many people in their personal, family and social behaviour. In particular, the younger generation is growing up in a world conditioned by the mass media.”

For Pope Francis, ‘listen’ is not something theoretical; it is the sine qua non for any catholic communicator who is interested in authentic communications, through searching and arriving at nothing but the truth, just like the Master Communicator Jesus!  One hears a common complaint today “nobody is listening!” Many experience this feeling – there is a painful story to share, a cry that needs to be heard – but nobody cares! That story, that cry becomes a voice crying in the wilderness! Is there someone listening? Does anybody care? In his message, Pope Francis throws a direct challenge to communicators: to listen and when you listen, to do so with the ear of your heart!

In October 2021, Pope Francis launched the Synodal process with the theme “For a synodal Church: communion, participation and mission. The process will culminate with the 2023 Synod in Rome. Pope Francis has been insisting that the synodal journey is about listening, learning and loving. His Communications Day message reiterates this when he says, A synodal process has just been launched. Let us pray that it will be a great opportunity to listen to one another. Communion, in fact, is not the result of strategies and programmes, but is built in mutual listening between brothers and sisters.” The question one needs to ask oneself: is there serious listening? Or is it lip-service: a tiresome formality without change? The painful reality is that, in several Dioceses the first phase has been sheer tokenism: an attitude of ‘it is a process which ‘had to be done’ – so let’s get over it as soon as possible!’

 

Are we listening to the cries of the poor and the vulnerable, the excluded and the exploited, the minorities and the other marginalised? When we listen with the heart, we are called to do something about it – we need to make a paradigm shift, to change; to ensure a better quality of life for all. Pope Francis says it rather strongly “human beings tend to flee the relationship, to turn their back and ‘close their ears’ so they do not have to listen. The refusal to listen often ends up turning into aggression towards the other, as happened to those listening to the deacon Stephen who, covering their ears, all turned on him at once.”

 

In this context, he once again highlights the plight of the migrants and their cries. We often treat them as outsiders: they are not like us, they do not ‘belong’ here! These suffer because of man’s inhumanity to man. They are the ‘other’! To this Pope Francis says, “The reality of forced migration is also a complex issue, and no one has a ready-made prescription for solving it. I repeat that, in order to overcome prejudices about migrants and to melt the hardness of our hearts, we should try to listen to their stories. Give each of them a name and a story. Many good journalists already do this. And many others would like to do it, if only they could. Let us encourage them! Let us listen to these stories! Everyone would then be free to support the migration policies they deem most appropriate for their own country. But in any case, we would have before our eyes not numbers, not dangerous invaders, but the faces and stories, gazes, expectations and sufferings of real men and women to listen to”. The reality of forced migrants is a key concern of Pope Francis’ papacy! Once again, we need to ask ourselves: are we listening to them with our hearts?

In his message, Pope Francis does not spare Church. He calls for a Church that has the heart to listen. He says, “It is sad when, even in the Church, ideological alignments are formed and listening disappears, leaving sterile opposition in its wake.” In the final segment of his message, he emphasises the need and importance of ‘Listening to one another in the Church’ He says, “In the Church, too, there is a great need to listen to and to hear one another. It is the most precious and life-giving gift we can offer each other. Christians have forgotten that the ministry of listening has been committed to them by him who is himself the great listener and whose work they should share. We should listen with the ears of God that we may speak the word of God.”

He reserves his choicest words to ‘so-called’ Catholic communicators, many of whom are frightened to be visible and vocal in standing up for truth and justice. Pope Francis urges them to develop their listening capacities. “Communication does not take place if listening has not taken place, and there is no good journalism without the ability to listen…. In order to provide solid, balanced, and complete information, it is necessary to listen for a long time. To recount an event or describe an experience in news reporting, it is essential to know how to listen, to be ready to change one’s mind, to modify one’s initial assumptions.”

 

He quotes the German Lutheran theologian Bonhoeffer, who like St Brandsma, was executed by the Nazis in 1945, “Thus, the Protestant theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer reminds us that the first service we owe to others in communion consists in listening to them. Whoever does not know how to listen to his brother or sister will soon no longer be able to listen to God either”. Strong words indeed if we have the courage to listen with the heart! On 1 May, Pope Francis paid tribute to journalists who have died or been jailed in the line of duty, defending a free press and praising those in the media “who courageously report on humanity’s wounds…I render homage to journalists who pay in person for this right”

 

It is important then, for all catholic communicators to do an honest and objective evaluation of their writings, productions and other forms of communications. How many of these have genuinely responded to the cries of the poor and the vulnerable, the excluded and exploited, the marginalised and the minorities of the country?  How many have written/done productions against the sedition, the UAPA and other draconian laws? the illegal incarceration of human rights defenders? the demonising of the Muslims? the unconstitutional abrogation of Articles 370 and 35A regarding Kashmir?  the anti-conversion laws? the three farm bills and the labour codes? The monstrous and extravagant Central Vista project? the denial of the legitimate rights of the Adivasis, Dalits, LGBTI? growing unemployment and spiralling prices? and much more? Do Catholic Communicators have the prophetic courage to take on the fascist and fundamentalist forces which are working overtime, to destroy the sanctity of the Constitution and the secular, pluralistic fabric of our beloved nation? It is time to listen! It is time for introspection! It is time to act! It is time to change!

 

Meaningful communication is not about sophisticated centres, glossy publications or ‘projects’ to be run – but the ability to stand for and communicate justice and truth with prophetic courage. Pope Francis has been consistently challenging catholic communicators to live up to this call. His message this year is all about that. Besides, from this year, one has a saint in Titus Brandsma who lived his vocation to the fullest. Will catholic communicators in India then have the audacity to listen with ear of the heart, to stand up and be counted, to be witnesses for justice and truth today?  

 

A tough challenge indeed! A challenge which demands an immediate and whole-hearted response!  After all, World Social Communications Day is also the Feast of the Ascension, when one is sent out to be his disciples, to witness to the good news, in the world today! Is “YES”, the answer?

 

25 May 2022

*(Fr. Cedric Prakash SJ is a human rights, reconciliation and peace activist/writer. Contact: cedricprakash@gmail.com )

Friday, May 20, 2022

  Conti.. Spirituality of the Old..Religious- Part 111.C.3 

 Bandhu Ishanand Vempeny, S. J.
                                                                     

 
SPIRITUALITY OF THE OLD  RELIGIOUS - Part11I .C.3 
Exercise 3: Healing the Hurt-Feelings through Forgiveness

          According to a Chinese Proverb, ‘A revengeful person digs two graves, one for himself and one for his enemy.  Forgiveness is vital for a happy old age. Also for physical, psychological and above all for spiritual healing.

a.      Repeat the above exercise till ‘e’.

b.     Picture the scene in which you experienced true forgiving love from those people whom you have offended.

c.      Picture the scene in which you experienced God’s forgiveness.

d.     Picture the scene in which a person hurt your feelings and inflicted deep psychic wounds. If the other person is 90% responsible for the conflict, what is that 10% of your responsibility? Forgive yourself for that 10%. Try to find out some good and noble qualities in the offender. Pray for his well-being.

e.      Concentrate on your breathing for 2 to 3 minutes.

f.       Look at the picture of the Risen Lord intently for a minute and pray: “Jesus, you have forgiven your enemies. Give me the grace to forgive my enemies. They are loved by you and by your and my father in heaven. Help me to accept (name the person) as my brother/sister. Lord, give him love, respect and recognition from others. May he experience true peace and prosperity.”

g.     Close your eyes. Concentrate on your breath for five minutes. Then say: “I send my love vibrations to (Name).” Repeat these words silently for a few minutes and say: “I send my peace and joy to (Name).” (Christianized version of Metabhavana of Vipasana.)

Conclusion

          This paper is primarily meant for the aging people especially the Religious and the Clerics. Unless we know something about death and our final destiny we can know very little about meaningful life. Hence this paper is of some use for younger people as well.

          As Pope John Paul II said, if life is a journey to our ultimate destiny, old age is the occasion for peeping through the door of our Eternal Home. Our studies in the second part are meant to have a realistic view of old age liberating ourselves from the lyrically optimistic and exaggeratedly pessimistic understandings of the final stage of our life.

          In the third part certain concrete and realistic problems of the elderly, especially of the Clerics and the Religious, were stated. The point made is that it is the very nature of old age to have these abnormalities. If the adult norms of today are applied to the behavioural patterns of the old, they are abnormal in many ways. Then what about the childish pranks and mischiefs of children? It is normal for children to behave in the way they do. It is taken for granted. “They are the future,” we say. But what about the old? If they were to live according to the norms of the youth and the ‘adults’, they would look not only abnormal but also ludicrous. The rapidly growing percentage of the old people will make us consider them ‘normally abnormal’ in the sense that they are very different from the adults or the middle-aged, with all their ‘normal abnormalities.’ As quoted earlier, Jung would say that the presence of the aged, especially in growing numbers, is a great service to people of other age groups to be fully human.

          I have focused on our final destiny in terms of ‘Life of Resurrection’ and ‘The Kingdom of God’. Will it lead us to the escapist spirituality of the early Church? In order to avoid this danger, I have emphasized that Life in the Kingdom of God or the Risen Life is not a press-button reality. We grow in the Life of Resurrection and the image of the Risen Christ will grow in us. It is a process. Entry into the Kingdom, with its “already-not-yet” dimensions, is also a process. Understood in this way, focusing on our final destiny can make the life of the elderly more dynamic, joyful and hopeful. “In my estimation, all that we suffer in the present time is nothing in comparison with the glory which is destined to be disclosed for us” (Rom 8: 18).

        The suggested exercises are just a few samples. Since the Religious and the Clerics are accustomed to these types of exercises, they may add to these insights and improve upon what is given. These exercises can make our life very valuable even after retirement.

 The End

Thursday, May 19, 2022

 Conti.. Spirituality of the Old..Religious- Part 111.C.3 

 Bandhu Ishanand Vempeny, S. J.
                                                     
 
SPIRITUALITY OF THE OLD  RELIGIOUS
 - Part11I .C.3                          
3.  Some Practices for a Healthy Old-Age

For these practices I am indebted to Fr. Tony D’Mello’s classes, Guru Goyankaji’s course, Zalman Schachter-Salomi’s book From Age-ing to Sage-ing, my studies for yogic diploma in Kaivalyadham, Lonavala, and Ira Progoff’s Intensive Journal. I shall give just a few exercises for samples. This can be useful for people in their middle-age and in their early old age. I know of old Religious who do these practices very profitably even in their late seventies and early eighties.

Exercise 1: Empowering oneself by activating the senses

a.      Sit down in a comfortable seat of your liking in a place where there is fresh air. Certain amount of privacy is valuable.

b.     First look at the atmosphere around you: trees, animals, birds, streams and the like. Just keep on looking at these things with minimum of thinking. Thank the Creator for all these things. Thank the Lord for the eyes through which you have seen millions of beautiful things, and watched thousands of events all of which taught you to become a better human being.

c.      Close the eyes and concentrate on the sounds: singing of birds, human voices, movements of vehicles, sound of rainfall, storms, and the like. Soon you will hear sounds which you had not heard before or songs of birds which are new to you. 

d.     Experience the touch of breeze, of the seat on which you are seated and of the ground where your feet are. In certain age and stage of one’s life if one keeps up this practice, he/she can experience the inter-connectedness of all the realities in the cosmos and the feeling of cosmic embrace.

e.      Concentrate on the smell and odour around.

f.       Try to eat something that you like. Chocolate if you are not a diabetic and fruits of your liking. Drink something you like.

g.     After activating your senses for a few minutes, close your eyes and concentrate on your breathing in and breathing out. Deliberately try to breathe slow and deep.

h.     Think of God’s children who are blind, deaf, crippled in various other ways. Thank the Lord for your senses and limbs.

Exercise 2: Getting into the Reality of Old Age and Death        

          Remember the Words of John Paul II:  “If life is the pilgrimage to our eternal home, old age is the naturally given occasion (kairos) for peeping into the door of this home” (John Paul II, from his pastoral letter for the Old, Cf. Karunikan, May 2008, p. 23).      

 

a.      Sit on a comfortable chair. Have a table or writing desk in front of you. Keep some blank papers and two ball-pens on the table.

b.     Place a picture of the Risen Christ on the table. Attached to it a caption with these words: “I am the Way, the Life and Resurrection.”

c.      Take couple of deep breaths. Close your eyes and listen to the sound for 2 to 5 minutes.

d.     Open your eyes and keep on looking at the picture for a few seconds. Close the eyes for a few seconds and mentally place the image of the picture between your eyebrows. Open your eyes and keep on looking at the picture on your table for a few seconds or even for a minute without blinking. Again close the eyes take in the image of the picture of the Risen Lord and place it between your eyebrows. You could repeat this exercise for a few minutes. This is a sort of Christianized yoga exercise called ‘Dharana’, for concentration.

e.      After doing the above exercise for some five minutes, bow to the picture on the table and touch it with both hands reverently. Read the above caption in a low voice looking at the picture. Again close your eyes, look at the picture of the Lord reverently and read the caption in a low voice. Repeat the exercise.

f.       Take a pen and a paper and write on it this question: What do I expect from my old age? Write down some of your positive expectations. Also write down your anxieties, concerns and fears, etc. of your old age.

g.     Write the name of one of the admirable and lovable old persons you have come across in the past. Write down the things you have admired in him/her and the qualities which made him/her very lovable. Write down the name of another lovable old person, then of another old person and repeat the exercise as with the first person.

h.     Write down the name of an old person whom you neither liked nor admired. Write down his/her unlikable qualities and character traits.

i.       Compare yourself with one of these model persons, try to walk in his/her shoes and see what characteristics are missing in you. Do the same with the negative model and see what are his/her negative and unlikable qualities in you. Write down both the positive and negative qualities in you.

j.       Once again focus your attention on the picture of the Risen Lord for a few seconds, then bow to the picture in reverence and pray: “Jesus, you have told us that you would be with us till the end of time. I believe that you are present in our community and in my heart. Jesus, you were the friend of sinners and you could transform third-rate human beings into first-rate leaders. Jesus, give me the grace to give love, joy and encouragement to people whom I meet today. Lord, accept me as your friend, lead me to the Father and make me call Him as you called, Abba-Father. (End with the prayer Our Father).

(Coming up next Part lll.C.3.  conti....)

Wednesday, May 18, 2022

 Conti.. Spirituality of the Old..Religious- Part 111.C.2 

 Bandhu Ishanand Vempeny, S. J.
                                                               

       
SPIRITUALITY OF THE OLD ESPECIALLY OFTHE RELIGIOUS - Part11I                             III.  SEARCH FOR A SPIRITUALITY FOR THE OLD . 

2. The Challenges of Abnormality

Jung had said that if somebody were to say that he/she is not abnormal, he would be the person to treat that individual. This is especially so with regard to the old. If a child behaves quite differently from the norm set by the adults, it is understood as child’s play, lila, childrens’ pranks, and the like. As it is obvious in the pranks of Child Krishna, these mischiefs and pranks make the children all the more attractive.

The elderly people, physiologically and psychologically resemble children in a number of details. But an elderly man’s abnormality often is interpreted as dotage if not madness. People forget that many of the abnormalities of old age are ‘normal’. If an elderly person deliberately indulges in the pranks and mischiefs of children, it would look like the playfulness of the donkey of Aesop Tales, which did so imitating his master’s puppy to get the attention, love and care the latter was getting from their master. 

To face the problems of outdatedness, the first thing to do is to educate oneself in self-awareness about the reality of old age. The second thing is to educate oneself to be a good listener with interest and affection. If you put in a few words of wisdom, they must be in response to the talks of the young visitor. If you are partly deaf you should be and seem to be more attentive to the talks of the visitor in order to avoid making him repeat too often.

 a.Abnormality Due to Our Religious Vows

As Maslow has pointed out, if our lower needs like the physical needs and recognition needs are not satisfied or sublimated, as we Religious are supposed to do, they would get “fixated” and would express themselves in the wrong way, at the wrong time and in the wrong place. Let us take the question of our vow of chastity. I remember the scene of a very highly enlightened man, known to be deeply spiritual, being led to his room after a TV programme by a Brother Religious who is in charge of the dispensary.  He was holding with his one hand the shoulder of the Brother while the other hand was occupied with his walking stick. He saw two young nurses appearing on the scene. Suddenly he pretended to be falling down, crying “My lumbago is hurting me.” Soon the nurses helped him to move to his room and lie on his easy chair. His lumbago-pain disappeared there and then. The Brother and the Nurses were well aware of the source of his pain on the lumbago.

I can enumerate numerous cases of this type of fixated sexual needs in old Religious. The person whom I remember most is the one who was known all over the South Indian Religious communities as an exceptionally spiritual person with special charism for giving retreats and spiritual direction. His commitment to “angelic chastity” was so deep that he avoided looking at women as far as possible and if he looked at women at all, it was above the neck. When he was admitted in a nursing home, as a tired old priest, he was at first unwilling to have the services of female nurses. When at last he allowed their services reluctantly, to keep the vow of obedience to the superior, his attitudes began to change rather abruptly. He changed to such an extent within a short time that he could not do almost anything, including getting up from the bed, moving out to the bathroom, eating, drinking and bathing without the help of the female nurses.

These two examples were taken from many other similar printable ones. There is nothing to be surprised at such fixation if the sexual drives had been suppressed rather than sublimated. To avoid such unhealthy situations, the first thing an eldering Religious should do is being aware of the possibility of one falling victim of this type of abnormal behaviours. Equally important is to get feed back from people who serve him/her. 

          It has been conclusively proved that touch (kissing, embrace, etc.) is vital for a child’s healthy growth. To some extent this need is felt very much by the elderly Religious. This is especially so since we do not experience loving and healing touches, as the married people get from their spouses or children. For some senior men and women religious, pet dogs, cats, squirrels, etc. do this service by way of substitution. Massaging by experts can partly fulfill this need thereby serving physical as well as psychological health.

 b.Abnormality caused by Robotization

We know how our grandparents had their special chairs to sit down, special places for meal, prayer and watching the TV. For many elderly Religious their programmes from morning to evening go in a mechanical way. Hitches in their routine can cause great trauma to them and uproarious scenes in the community. I remember the trauma experienced by a retired mother superior when her hair-dryer could not function in a rural area where power-cut (scheduled stoppage of electricity to save energy) was a usual phenomenon.

          If old people develop self-awareness and are open to feedback from those who take care of them, many of the abnormalities can be avoided. All the same, a lot will remain with us till we close our eyes forever.

( Coming up next Part lll.C.3. Some Practices for a Healthy Old-Age)

Tuesday, May 17, 2022

  Conti.. Spirituality of the Old..Religious- Part 111.C.1 

 Bandhu Ishanand Vempeny, S. J.
                                                          
SPIRITUALITY OF THE OLD ESPECIALLY OF
THE RELIGIOUS - Part11I      III.  SEARCH FOR A SPIRITUALITY FOR THE OLD .                                                                                                                                      C. This-worldly Dimension of the Spirituality of the Elderly
We have seen some of the physiological and psychological problems of the elderly. It is well and good to soar into lyricism praising the glories of old age as Cicero did. It is great to speak eloquently about the vrudhavasta aspect of old age, but if we neglect the ghatpan aspect, we will not be fully awakened to the reality of old age. Tony de Mello would say that “Spirituality means waking up.”  Here I shall present just a few realities of ageing and I shall do it without sugar-coating. Then we shall see how these problems can turn into opportunities of spiritual growth. 

1. The Challenge of Outdatedness
Alvin Toffler has said that if there is anything permanent it is change. Today the world is changing far more rapidly than a few decades or few centuries back. With the TV, computer, mobile phone, etc., what a septuagenarian learned of geography or history within a couple of years, is learned by a schoolboy within a couple of weeks. During the ‘pre-computer’ age, the calculations made by a Nobel Laureate by years of hard work, can be made within a few minutes through a laptop. 

If this is true it stands to reason that an elderly person should be aware that his/her ‘Jewels of Wisdom’, need not be such precious jewels for the younger generation. Somebody asked Bernard Lonergan, one of the greatest theologians of the Vatican II era, a few years after his retirement from the Jesuit Theologates, what the younger professors were doing at that time. Lonergan replied: “They are throwing imaginary pearls to real swines.” In other words even such an enlightened theologian like Lonergan could not keep pace with the changing times. This means that even an avant-garde thinker can become outdated within a few years of his retirement. 

With certain reservations we too can say with Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, that age-ing leads to sage-ing. But the elderly have to be cautious. It can cause havoc in a community if two or three old Religious pose as sages or wise-men, always ready to scatter their ‘Pearls of Wisdom’ opportunely and inopportunely. The havoc may be more damaging if they are fifty or sixty percent deaf, as usually is the case. When I was a young Jesuit Scholastic I used to make appointment with such wise-men not earlier than ten minutes before a necessary community programme like meals and prayer, so that I might not be overfed with their wisdom. 

“Old Sages” of Zalman may not be in the habit of listening. The following Gujarati proverb satthe lap vadhe (=in the sixties talkativeness will be on the rampage) has a point. The younger generation, especially those addicted to other sources of ‘wisdom’ like computers, TVs and mobile phones, are not very eager to listen to the old. However, today people search eagerly for those who listen with interest and empathy to disburden themselves of their personal woes. If an old Religious is really wise, affectionate, humourous and in the habit of listening with interest and empathy, more and more people will seek his/her company. 
(Coming up next Part lll. C .2. The Challenges of Abnormality)


Monday, May 16, 2022

 Conti.. Spirituality of the Old..Religious- Part 111.B 

 Bandhu Ishanand Vempeny, S. J.
                         

    
SPIRITUALITY OF THE OLD ESPECIALLY OF
THE RELIGIOUS -- Part 111

III.    A SEARCH FOR A SPIRITUALITY FOR THE OLD . 

B. The Eschatological Dimension

One of the metaphors, which can give great meaning to old age and death is that of wheat-grain falling to the ground.  “Truly, I tell you, unless the grain of wheat falls on the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much fruit” (Jn 12: 24).

This metaphor must be read in connection with Rom. 6 where Paul speaks how we share Christ’s death, burial and resurrection through Baptism: “So by our baptism into his death we were buried with him, so that as Christ was raised from the dead by the Father’s glorious power, we too should begin living a new life. If we have been joined to him by dying a death like his, so we shall be by a resurrection like his; realizing that our former self was crucified with him, so that the self which belonged to sin should be destroyed and we should be freed from the slavery of sin” (4-6). This idea of sharing the life of Risen Lord is found in a slightly different way in Phil 3:10-11: “I want to know him and to experience the power of his resurrection and share in his sufferings and become like him in his death, so that I may attain the resurrection from the dead.” In the context of the fruitfulness of our life by union with Christ, he uses the metaphor of the union of the branches to the wine to produce fruits (Jn 15:1-10).

The idea that the Kingdom of God is partially present here on earth to be realized fully in the beyond, points out to the life or the Spirit of the Risen Christ as a guarantee for our life in the beyond. The parables of growth (mustard seed, Mt 13:31-32; leaven 13:33, and the growing seed when the farmer sleeps, Mk 4:26-29) express graphically this view of the seminal presence of the Kingdom, growing into the future. Besides, the era of the Kingdom is understood as the era of the outpouring of the Spirit, and this Spirit is given as aparxe (first fruits) (Rom 8:23) or as arrabona (pledge or guarantee) (2 Cor 1:22 and 5:5; Eph 1:13) meaning thereby the partial experience of the Spirit promising a fuller realization in the future. According to Paul by sharing the life of the Risen Christ, Christ’s image (2 Cor 3:18) will grow in us. In Eph. 4:13 and 16, we have the well-known sayings of growing into the full stature of Christ, which can be understood in terms of the growth of the individual Christian as well as of the collective body of Christians.

When Paul speaks about the resurrection of the dead he uses a similar metaphor if not the same. “Someone may ask: How are dead people raised, and what sort of body do they have when they come? How foolish! What you sow must die before it is given new life; and what you sow is not the body that is to be, but only a bare grain, of wheat I dare say, or some other kind; it is God who gives it the sort of body that he has chosen for it, and for each kind of seed its own kind of body… It is the same too with the resurrection of the dead: what is sown is perishable, but what is raised is imperishable; what is sown is contemptible but what is raised is glorious; what is sown is weak, but what is raised is powerful; what is sown is a natural body, and what is raised is a spiritual body” (1 Cor 15:35-38, 42-44).

Jesus says that by sharing His Eucharistic body and blood we share in his death and resurrection. “So Jesus replied, I am telling you the truth, if you do not eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day” (Jn 6:53-54, cf. also 55-58).    

          It is said that Prince Siddhartha, after seeing the three scenes of an old man, dying man and dead man, one after the other, began to ask ultimate questions on the meaning of man’s life and death until he became ‘the Buddha’ (= the enlightened one). The Second Vatican Council calls Religious Life “the blazing emblem of the heavenly Kingdom” (PC, No. 1). This is especially so through chastity “which is practiced ‘on behalf of the kingdom’ (Mt 19:12) and which Religious profess” (PC, No. 12). Religious Life, in itself, symbolizes the other-worldly dimension of the Kingdom of God, the life of bliss in heaven. But when a Religious, especially an elderly one, experiences more and more deeply the life of resurrection and the gifts of the Spirit such as “charity, joy and peace, patience, understanding of others, kindness and fidelity, gentleness and self-control” (Gal 5:23). An old Religious with his/her very existence, especially with the above fruits of the Spirit and with the growing image of the Risen Christ, by his/her very existence is one of the most effective preacher of the Kingdom.

( Coming up next  C.This-worldly Dimension of the Spirituality of the Elderly)